if "well adjusted" translates to "well suited to moving through this awful bullshit with the minimum amount of friction" maybe we need better metrics is all I am saying. because, yeah.
work
my boss says I shouldn't have to answer those kinds of questions which!! I know that!! but how do I redirect when I'm asked anyway!!!
perhaps a gender hot take idk
@bright_helpings !!! there's the adequate expression I couldn't make!
perhaps a gender hot take idk
@lemememeringue I hate it a lot! https://mspsocial.net/@bright_helpings/105576334412249421
re: perhaps a gender hot take idk
@dragon @aradinfinity some have a "funny" new transphobic term for the acronym (that I've conveniently forgetten oops) but for the most part it's just a quiet way to appear friendly w trans-supportive individuals while signalling to other terfs that they're "hygienic" and other gross dogwhistles. "tme" has been better received than "afab" bc of the related activism of... the mere acknowledgement of the existence and struggle of trans fems.
re: perhaps a gender hot take idk
@aradinfinity @dragon some ppl choose to specify as an attempt at alliance, as trans fem individuals are more targeted for harassment. the same logic as ppl putting "white" in their bio as a show of?? solidarity or openness or smth w poc. idk it feels hugely performative and oversharing to me but some ppl find it v important to know up front.
re: perhaps a gender hot take idk
@dragon @aradinfinity yeah. I find it slightly more Hmmm than afab/amab nb tho bc tumblr terfs also put the term in their bios.
Lem π | 22 | any pronouns will suffice
disabled, queer, racially ambiguous
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